Opposites Hold True

As we continue reading our Bibles daily, we discover that love is a theme throughout the Holy Scriptures. At times, the Word of God reveals an idea by describing the opposite of it, thus making the reader understand more fully. We know that, in simple terms, selfishness is the opposite of genuine love. By applying the "opposite method" to our Bible study, we are sure to grasp a fuller meaning of God's love.

We learn from 1 Corinthians 13:5 that love does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil. Since we know what love does not do, we will rightly conclude what selfishness does:

Selfishness = Rude Behavior, Bad Manners

Selfishness = Attention to Own Endeavors Only

Selfishness = Taking Personal Offense

Selfishness = Keeping Record

The purpose of studying the aspects of selfish behavior is so that we might identify it in our own lives. Selfishness is the result of allowing our worldly nature to rule us. This, of course, is sin and it is a natural inclination.

Just as surely as the above equations are true, so are the following:

Genuine Love = Showing Honor by Considerate Behavior
Genuine Love = Seeking Well-Being of Others
Genuine Love = Controlling Temper
Genuine Love = Eagerly Believing the Best

We study the attributes of genuine love so that we can identify it in others that it might be an example to us. What an encouragement it is when we witness genuine love flowing from a life of a believer! It challenges us to be examples to others.

Philippians 2:3-4, "Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interest, but also for the interest of others."

Proverbs 14:29, "He who is slow to wrath has great understanding, but he who is impulsive exalts folly."

Colossians 3:14, "But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection."

The essence of genuine love is selfless sacrifice out of concern for the needs of others. To actually put aside our own wants and needs is not only difficult to do, but it is impossible without the Lord. He is the one Who imparts this love and then supplies the grace that motivates us to act it out. May He continue to expand our understanding as we step out in faith.

Love, Karen