Just a Note...

A new session of Glorious Church will begin again after the New Year. Our Bible study will continue each Wednesday, starting on January 9, 2008.

Please plan to join us @ 10:30 at my home in Warren as we study several chapters in the Gospel of John.

Meanwhile, have a joyous Christmastime as the Lord pours out His love on you and your families.

Love, Karen

The Greatest is Love Because God is Love

Our study of 1 Corinthians 13 has explained many traits - patience, humility, courtesy, and generosity, to name a few - and we have determined that each one is a practical expression of love.

"...but the greatest of these is love."

Now that we are at the end of our journey through the chapter, we are told that even among the virtues that endure, love is the greatest. There is a wonderful reason why the Scriptures describe love as the one greatest virtue, and it can be found in the following Bible verses. Let us read carefully and allow the Holy Spirit to speak to our hearts.

1 John 4:7-16, "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has seen God at any time. If we love one another, God abides in us, and His love has been perfected in us. By this we know that we abide in Him, and He in us, because He has given us of His Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent the Son as Savior of the world. Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. And we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him."

Love is the great motivator behind what God did for us. As each of us reflects upon God's involvment in our lives today, we see that love continues to be the reason for His work in us. Because God loves us, we are able to love.

Lord Jesus, thank You for Your love. Thank You for teaching me about Your love. Help me to practice what I have learned. Let my motivation be love. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Faith, Hope, and Love Will Remain

1 Corinthians 13:13, "And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love."

We don't often use the word abide in our everyday conversation, so let our study begin by taking a close look at abiding and what it means to us today. If someone asks you where you live, they mean something like, "Where do you carry on your life?" or "Where is the place in which you dwell?" "Where do you abide?"

In our verse, Paul characterizes the qualities of faith, hope, and love as those that have a place to stay. They have a dwelling place, and the three endure until the end. The transient things of this world will one day vanish forever. However, faith, hope, and love will remain. They will continue. They will stand. They will live.

But...Where do faith, hope and love live?

Our Lord Jesus dwells in each of His children. He abides in us and by His grace supplies us with the faith we need to believe and to obey Him; He pours hope into our lives that we might see with joyful expectation our home in Heaven; and He lavishes His love upon us so that we might love Him and love others.

Galatians 2:20, "I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me."

Colossians 1:27, "To them God willed to make known what are the riches of the glory of this mystery among the Gentiles: which is Christ in you, the hope of glory."

Ephesians 3:14, 16-19, "For this reason I bow my knees to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with might through His Spirit in the inner man, that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height--to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God."

Pray this Prayer

Lord Jesus, since faith, hope, and love will endure until the end, let them dwell in me. Let me live in a manner that others will see You. To glorify you is all that I desire. Amen.

It's Perfectly Clear to the Lord

"...but then I shall know just as I also am known." (See 1 Corinthians 13:12.)

It is frightening for most people to realize that God knows you through and through! They feel uneasy and even threatened by such knowledge. People wear masks to conceal their true character, and pretend to be one way while living another.

However, for the child of God, to be known by Him is the greatest encouragement in all the world. We can live a lifetime interacting with people who do not really know us, much less understand us; but, God knows and understands -- and still loves us!

Psalm 139:1, "O Lord, You have searched me and known me."

Hebrews 4:13, "And there is no creature hidden from His sight, but all things are naked and open to the eyes of Him to whom we must give account."

Psalm 44:21, "Would not God search this out? For He knows the secrets of the heart."

Jeremiah 17:10, "I, the Lord, search the heart, I test the mind, even to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his doings."

1 Chronicles 28:9, "For the Lord searches all hearts and understands all the intent of the thoughts."

Psalm 38:9, "Lord, all my desire is before You; and my sighing is not hidden from You."

The Lord loves me and completely understands me. I am flooded with confident tranquility as I absorb this idea. He alone considers every outside force in my life that has caused me to be who I am. He knows my genetic makeup, and He knows precisely why I am the unique, special person I am. Consequently, He alone can properly appraise my heart and actions.

The Living Bible paraphrases our verse in the this way, "But then I will see everything clearly, just as clearly as God sees into my heart right now."

Lord Jesus, I trust the way you see me. Thank you for your love. Amen.

Access by Faith in Jesus Christ

1 Corinthians 13:12, "For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known."

Concerning our understanding of the love of Christ, we see through a veil. This is because we are sinful, and He is pure and sinless. We serve a God Who is wholly good and just, and Who is completely void of spot or stain. We want to know as much as we can so that we can be like Christ, but we are not allowed to look at Him because of our sin. We dwell in these mortal "tents" and to behold the full, glorious knowledge of the love of Christ is something that we are destined to someday experience, but not now.

King David expressed this idea in Psalm 17:15, "As for me, I will see Your face in righteousness; I shall be satisfied when I awake in Your likeness."

Because of all this, it is only dimly that we can now perceive the supreme perfection of His wonderful, matchless love. Still, the hope within us is kindled and burns brightly with expectation that one day we will comprehend all things because we will be in His likeness.

Even though we may feel constricted in our knowledge, we are never limited in our access to our Heavenly Father. The veil that once prohibited us from His presence is torn and put away. By faith, we may approach Him through Jesus Christ. This wonderful news may escape our mental comprehension level, but we do understand by faith.

Mark 15:38, "Then the veil of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom."

2 Corinthians 3:16, 18, "Nevertheless when one turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord."

Becoming Christlike is a progression, and it is not dependent upon how much we know; it is dependent on how much we trust.

Love, Karen

Putting Away Childish Things

1 Corinthians 13:11, "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things."

A new-born baby cries because he or she needs something. The mother is quick to meet the needs of her infant whether it be a diaper change, a feeding, or affection. When the baby becomes a toddler, some of his tears may mean that he has a desire rather than an actual need. The parents must distinguish the difference, because the child does not know that everything he wants may not be good for him. And so, the parents spend the rest of his childhood training him to look outside of himself. They begin to discipline the youngster when he displays selfishness, disobedience, and destructive behavior.

By the time the youth has become a man or woman, childish ways are put away. The adult has God-given responsibilities, maybe a spouse, children and a job. Grown-ups will be tempted to revert to juvenile behavior, but they must resist self-indulgence and deliberately choose the way of charity.

Paul speaks very matter-of-factly, as if the whole procedure is a natural step, even simple. We know that it is not. The only simplicity lies in remembering that our Heavenly Father is always there for us. It is through Him that we keep on the narrow path and grow as Christians. We have not achieved a permanent grown-up status just because we call ourselves adults. We always must run like a child to our Lord.

He will discipline us, love us, and deliver us from our bad behavior, if we ask Him. He always knows that everything we want may not be good for us. He reminds us to look outside of ourselves, and He will spend the rest of our lives nurturing us.

Lord, help me leave my childish ways behind. I want to spend my time looking out to the needs of others, not floundering in self-centeredness. Thank you for holding me up and walking with me on the way. Amen.

Love, Karen

Growing Up in Christ

The definition of our English word "perfect" is "to be entirely without fault or defect." However, in our text it doesn't mean that at all! The New Testament meaning describes a person that is mature or full grown.

"But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away."

1 Corinthians 14:20, "Brethren, do not be children in understanding; however, in malice be babes, but in understanding be mature."

Colossians 1:28, "Him we preach, warning every man and teaching every man in all wisdom, that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus."

James 3:2, "For we all stumble in many things. If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle the whole body."

The distinct mark of a mature Christian is the ability to convey genuine love. What does it look like? Paul has itemized love's characteristics and has painstakingly described how it will show up in our conduct.

A perfect man is not one without fault or defect: a perfect man is one who is maturing in his walk with Lord.

Lord, please don't give up on me. Forgive me when my attitude is wrong. Teach me to show genuine love, and help me to grow up in you. Amen.

Keeping the Proper Perspective

"But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away," 1 Corinthians 13:10.

Now, we are toward the end of Chapter 13 of 1 Corinthians, and we understand that Paul has gently scolded the Corinthians for immature behavior. They had compared spiritual gifts, which only had produced strife, contention, and division. The Corinthian church had forgotten to seek God's will and had embraced worldly wisdom. This had caused confusion and disorganization.

In their youthful state, the Christians in Corinth rated a person's value to the church by that person's gifts. The Lord spoke to them, as He speaks to you and me, utilizing Paul's pen. He is telling us that we clamor over things that are only temporal. He tells us that love is greater than all things combined. He exhorts us to put the temporal in the proper perspective, and He reminds us that we would be much wiser to put our energy into something that is not fleeting, but will contribute to our heavenly existence.

The Lord promises that death will be swallowed up in victory. In the same way, the partial will be swallowed up in perfection.

Ephesians 4:11-15, "And He Himself gave some to be apostles, some prophets, some evangelists, and some pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ, till we all come to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a perfect man, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ; that we should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting, but, speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head --Christ."

Lord, help me to focus upon you, the Giver of all good gifts. Help me to walk in the Spirit, and not according to my flesh. Above all, teach me to love. Amen.

The Miracle of the Fullness of God

The Lord inspired the Apostle Paul to include the following heartfelt prayer in one of his letters to the churches.

Ephesians 3:17-19, "I pray that Christ will live in your hearts by faith and that your life will be strong in love and be built on love. And I pray that you and all God's holy people will have the power to understand the greatness of Christ's love -- how wide and how long and how high and how deep that love is. Christ's love is greater than anyone can ever know, but I pray that you will be able to know that love. Then you can be filled with the fullness of God." (see New Century Version.)

We understand from this Scripture that God's love is total. It reaches every corner of our experience -- from the height of our celebration to the depth of our grief and sorrow. This love is too much to understand with our minds and much greater than we could ever comprehend, yet this wise apostle prays for a miracle! He prays that we would know God's love, so that we can be filled with the fullness of God!

It is impossible to know God's love completely, but that doesn't mean we should ever stop searching. The Lord promises that if we seek Him with our whole heart, we will find Him.

Is that where you are right now? Are you ready to seek to know God's love? Do you desire to know Him, to follow Him? Do you confess that you are unable to do so without His assistance?

Then, you are ready. Step out today and begin anew. He wants to show you a deeper love that will satisfy your hungry soul. Just ask.

Love, Karen

God is Not Limited

1 Corinthians 13:9, "For we know in part and we prophesy in part."

Our best knowledge and our greatest abilities to teach that which we know are exactly like our condition: limited and temporary. This is the way it is and it is the way it will remain as long as we live in these temporary bodies on this earth.

Our Heavenly Father, the God Whom we serve, possesses three specific characteristics:

1. He is omnipotent: almighty, infinite in power, having unlimited authority.

2. He is omnipresent: present everywhere at the same time.

3. He is omniscient: having unlimited knowledge, awareness; perceiving all things.

Wherever I lack, God fulfills. Whenever I am not up to the task at hand, God can do it. When I cannot be in more than one place at a time, God is everywhere. When I do not understand, God does.

We have hope because we serve a Mighty God. We put our trust in the One that calls the earth His footstool. We can believe in the King Who is enthroned in the Heavens.

It doesn't make me feel bad to realize that I can only know in part, because I am acquainted with the One Who knows everything. And He is my God. He is my Savior. He is my Friend. I belong to Him.

...And He loves me.

Karen

God's Love is Constant

1 Corinthians 13:8, "Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease, whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away."

The character of Christ is constant. When the world around us delivers confusion, change, and calamity, the genuine love of Jesus stands serene and sure. However, it is only as we open our hearts to Him that we can ever hope to share that same enduring quality of His eternal love.

If your religion centers on the admiration you have for oratory skills, spiritual gifts, and educational degrees, then you will be gravely disappointed. If you love the Lord because He has blessed you with possesions, good health, and a well-paying job, you are basing your Christianity on temporal things.

On the other hand, if your religion is based on a relationship with your Savior, then your foundation is sure. His love for you never fluctuates, and certainly never vanishes. This is His character.

The remarkable truth is that He wants to share this same love with you so that you can love Him back, and so that you can show this love to a chaotic world.

Lord Jesus, You are the same yesterday, and today, and forever. This thought stirs me to the depth of my soul. I can face the future knowing that You are with me, You never change, and You never fail. Thank you for teaching me about genuine love. Amen.

Defined and Developed...Only to Give Away

Love..."bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things," 1 Corinthians 13:7.

"The New Testament in Modern English" translates it this way: "Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything."

What Kind of Love?

This kind of love - genuine and eternal - is supernatural. It is Christ-in-us that enables us to serve, to give, and to work so that others are drawn to Him. Souls are not saved by believing in our works, but by believing in the accomplished work on the Cross, so we always point to Jesus Christ. We must boast in the Lord and give Him the credit for what He has done.

How Do I Do It?

Matthew 22:37, "Jesus said to him, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind."

John 15:12-13, "This is my commandment, that you love one another, as I have loved you. Greater love has no one that this, than to lay down one's life for his friends."

We are not to try to divide our love between God and others, but let God love others through us. This is why we are to love God first, and then love one another. They're equal in importance, but in that order for a reason. We cannot love others with God's love without first loving Him - and we love Him because He first loved us. (See 1 John 4:19.)

How Will I Know I Have Love?

1 John 2:3-5, "Now by this we know that we know Him, if we keep His commandments. He who says, I know Him, and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in Him. By this we know that we are in Him."

The proof of our love for God is seen in our actions and confirmed by our attitudes. As we seek the Lord daily in prayer and in reading His Word, He will cleanse us and make us usable. As we obey His instructions, He will give us eyes to see the needs around us and we will be willing to give selflessly.

Will I Receive More?

Ephesians 3:19, "To know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God." The more we know God's character, and the more we understand His love, the more our love for Him will grow.

Here we meet the essence of Christlikeness: love others with the love we have been given.

Love, Karen

Another Facet of Genuine Love

The city of Corinth was located in the modern-day country of Greece. It was the most populated city in all of the land, and a very busy seaport. Paul had planted a church there, mostly made up of gentiles, on his second journey during his ministry. They were surrounded by idolotry and corruption. Their mythology was so imbedded in the culture that the new church members became confused and chameleon-like in their conduct within the structure of the church, as well as without. The pressure to conform to worldy behavior had overtaken them, so when Paul heard of their struggles, he wrote a letter, and today we refer to this as the first epistle to the Corinthians.

Over sixteen chapters, the Lord used Paul to explain a moral code that should be followed within the fellowship of the new believers. He corrected problems and answered questions. He reminded them of the simple Gospel message that they had embraced before. He taught them concerning worship, law suits, and spiritual gifts. Paul boldly confronted the Corinthians about their sins and shortcomings.

Throughout, genuine love is interlaced among the instructions Paul has for the young church. He conveys this thought even when he must discipline and rebuke. Then, with plain words he details the conduct of genuine love. He writes that love is never glad about wrong behavior, but rejoices when the truth wins out. Genuine love causes us to want to stand up for what is right and to rejoice with those that have the courage to do so. However, genuine love does not lord it over those that do not have that same grace quite yet.

It is true that mercy must go hand in hand with truth and justice. This is what Paul conveyed to the Christians in Corinth. He knew that they were young, that they had a long way to go in their walk with the Lord, and that with training they would learn.

Proverbs 3:3, "Let not mercy and truth forsake you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart, and so find favor and high esteem in the sight of God and man."

Micah 6:8, "He has shown you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God?"

Genuine love requires that each of us has a heart of mercy. The Lord has shown great mercy to us because He came to die on the cross in our place. He had compassion because we were like sheep without a shepherd.

We are like the Corinthians in many ways. We need correction along the way, but we also need mercy and compassion. We also must learn to give mercy and compassion.

Lord, it may take us a while to learn the scope of genuine love. Continue to give us the grace as we surrender ourselves to you. Teach us to love by loving through us. Amen.

Love Rejoices in the Truth

Love..."does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth," 1 Corinthians 13:6.

Iniquity is an interesting word and deserves our careful consideration. It conveys an absence of moral or spiritual values which results in an unjust act. Other synonyms for the word are injustice, unrighteousness, and wrong. Love finds no satisfaction in this bahavior - whether in our own lives or in the lives of others. The Word of God instructs us to flee from it. "Let everyone who names the name of Christ depart from iniquity," 2 Timothy 2:19.

Truth, on the other hand, is what is really going on inside despite the outward appearance. Love motivates us to search out the heart of a matter.

"However, when He, the Spirit of truth, has come, He will guide you into all truth; for He will not speak on His own authority, but whatever He hears He will speak; and He will tell you things to come," John 16:13.

"And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free," John 8:32.

All of us behave according to what is in our hearts. Do we harbor guilt, bitterness, or immorality? We must be vigilant to ask the Lord to reveal the iniquity in our hearts that we might be set free from this bondage. "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness," 1 John 1:9.

When we have been set free, we can look at others through the eyes of genuine love which is exactly the way Jesus sees. He doesn't expect us to pretend we do not see, or to turn away from a person. However, the Lord does ask us to look with an unbiased mind and humble heart. We must receive God's grace to use the self-restraint which refuses our focusing on the weaknesses of others.

This kind of response to another's unrighteous behavior is genuine love in action. So we learn that truth without genuine love is iniquity.

Love, Karen

The "New" in New Commandment

The Old Testament law commands us to love our neighbors. "You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the Lord," Leviticus 19:18.

Why, then, does the New Testament reiterate this principle and label it as "new?" Isn't this the very same commandment?

John 13:34-35 says, "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. By this all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."

The answer to these questions lie in Christ's fulfillment of the law. What makes this command brand new is the genuine love of Jesus. He instructed us to love one another in the same way He loved us! Such love will not only bring unbelievers to Christ; it will also keep believers strong and united in a world that is hostile to God.

Jesus explains in The Sermon on the Mount that He is the fulfillment of the Old Testament Law, "Do not think that I came to destroy the Law or the Prophets. I did not come to destroy but to fulfill," Matthew 5:17.

Our Lord Jesus is the ultimate example of genuine love. When others notice the love that we have for one another, they will be drawn to the Lord and He will be glorified.

Lord Jesus, thank You for helping me understand that the reason You came to earth was because of Your genuine love. Thank You that you demonstrated this love so that we might have an example. Thank You for teaching me how to love. Amen

Opposites Hold True

As we continue reading our Bibles daily, we discover that love is a theme throughout the Holy Scriptures. At times, the Word of God reveals an idea by describing the opposite of it, thus making the reader understand more fully. We know that, in simple terms, selfishness is the opposite of genuine love. By applying the "opposite method" to our Bible study, we are sure to grasp a fuller meaning of God's love.

We learn from 1 Corinthians 13:5 that love does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil. Since we know what love does not do, we will rightly conclude what selfishness does:

Selfishness = Rude Behavior, Bad Manners

Selfishness = Attention to Own Endeavors Only

Selfishness = Taking Personal Offense

Selfishness = Keeping Record

The purpose of studying the aspects of selfish behavior is so that we might identify it in our own lives. Selfishness is the result of allowing our worldly nature to rule us. This, of course, is sin and it is a natural inclination.

Just as surely as the above equations are true, so are the following:

Genuine Love = Showing Honor by Considerate Behavior
Genuine Love = Seeking Well-Being of Others
Genuine Love = Controlling Temper
Genuine Love = Eagerly Believing the Best

We study the attributes of genuine love so that we can identify it in others that it might be an example to us. What an encouragement it is when we witness genuine love flowing from a life of a believer! It challenges us to be examples to others.

Philippians 2:3-4, "Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his own interest, but also for the interest of others."

Proverbs 14:29, "He who is slow to wrath has great understanding, but he who is impulsive exalts folly."

Colossians 3:14, "But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection."

The essence of genuine love is selfless sacrifice out of concern for the needs of others. To actually put aside our own wants and needs is not only difficult to do, but it is impossible without the Lord. He is the one Who imparts this love and then supplies the grace that motivates us to act it out. May He continue to expand our understanding as we step out in faith.

Love, Karen

Love is a Heavenly Gift

The Lord God is the Source of Genuine Love and is quick to liberally pour it out upon His children. Every thought that He has for us, every blessing that He bestows is because of His love, a love that we can never earn.

The description of genuine love in 1 Corinthians 13 reveals to us the importance of this virtue in our lives. As we learn more about the Greek agape kind of love, we will begin to understand that love is not complete without giving.

Defining genuine love is difficult, so Paul resorts to describing how it should look in the life of a Christian. He explains that this love is even more than action alone: it is the attitude behind the action. We must always ask ourselves, "Are my motives pure?"

We will recognize genuine love in our lives when we seek to serve with no expectations. In fact, our reward will be that the Lord gets the glory for any good accomplished. Genuine love is not an impulse of feeling, but it is a desire to help others see the Giver.

The Lord is the Giver of all good things according to James 1:17, "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning."

Lord Jesus, the desire of my heart is that others would look at me and know that I belong to You. Help me to be a witness of Your love, that others will turn to You for their salvation. Thank you for saving me. Amen

The Sum of All Virtues

1 Corinthians 13

In our text, Paul uses vivid language to address the important subject of genuine love. It is as if He takes a pause in the middle of working out the problems of the church in order to define the basic behavior of Christlike character. Within the pages of Paul's first epistle to the Corinthians we find an almost-poetic description of how it should appear in our lives.

Why is this prominent place given to the subject of genuine love? It is because love is the sum of all other virtues. Scripture makes that clear by saying that the whole law is fulfilled in this one word. Jesus said that all the law and the prophets hang on two commandments about love: love God, and love your neighbor (Matthew 22:37-40).

1 Corinthinans 13:4, "Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up."

Longsuffering is from a Greek word that literally means "long-tempered." So, think of what it means to be short-tempered, and then imagine the exact opposite. This may also describe someone who is wronged and who has the power to avenge himself -- but never does it.

Kindness, on the other hand, is an action of goodwill. It is an act of giving unselfishly. The recipient of a kind gesture smiles because it is refreshing and because nothing is expected in return.

Genuine love also can be identified by what it is not. The first of the not list in the verse is that love does not envy. Envy is a selfish, sinful desire and we must not make room for it. God's love is always giving, never taking.

James 3:16, "Where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there."

The rest of 1 Corinthians 13:4 speaks of boasting and arrogance. If envy is resentment over the blessings of others, boasting is the sin of trying to make others envious of us. Boasting is an attempt to elevate self.

When we look for the one perfect example of genuine love, our eyes will always rest upon Jesus Christ, for He alone embodies it. When we long for genuine love in our own lives, again, our eyes will always rest expectantly upon Jesus, for He alone is the Source...

...and He imparts it to us through the Holy Spirit.

Lord, may your love rest upon me. Amen

Genuine Love is From God

In our daily Bible reading, we have no doubt discovered once again that references to God's love or Christ's love occur often. Love is the theme and purpose behind all of God’s Word. We cannot escape it, nor do we want to. The world's idea of love is in reality lust. As Christians, we have come to understand that love gives, but lust takes. God's love is genuine, pure, and unselfish.

In I Corinthians 13, the Apostle Paul wrote that we can have eloquent speech, prophetic powers, a mind full of understanding and knowledge, and faith to move mountains, and we can even give all of our possessions to feed the poor and give our bodies to be burned, but without love “it profits nothing” (see I Corinthians 13:1–3).

Genuine love is powerful because it produces action. John 3:16 says that God loved the world so much that He gave. The Scripture cautions us to let genuine love motivate us to good works, not the other way around. It is impossible to find this kind of love within ourselves; it is His love and He produces it in each of us as we surrender to Him.

When Christ perfects His love in us through His Word, our lives will demonstrate the power of Christ’s love.

Lord, perfect Your love in us. Amen.

Love, Karen

Welcome to a New Bible Study!

I can always tell when it's time to re-organize my life and to weed out the activities that have made me so busy. How do I know? Well, it is when the air grows colder, the leaves turn color, and the sunlight fades sooner in the day. This season is also a great time to begin a new Women's Bible Study!

This year, there is no book to purchase and there is no homework to complete. Instead, let's do something a little different. Let's find a daily Bible reading shedule that fits each of our needs, and then let's read our Bibles every day.

These websites offer a variety of options: http://www.wholesomewords.org/family/bibleread/biblerea.html,
http://www.thebible.net/read/sched.html, http://www.studythebible.com/daily.htm.

A daily dose of the Word of God will be the nourishment that each of us needs. If you and I take the time to ingest a portion of the Scriptures on a regular basis, God promises not only to cleanse us, and keep us from sin, but also to equip us for the work He wants us to do.

Ephesians 5:26, "that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word..."

Psalm 119:11, "Your word I have hidden in my heart, That I might not sin against You."

2 Timothy 4:16, "All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness."

I invite you to join me as we delve into the pages of the Bible, God's Holy Word. If you are already reading daily, maybe the Psalms and Proverbs of the day, please continue to do so. If you would like to begin a schedule today, choose one that you like, and then jump right in!

Lord Jesus, as we re-organize and reprioritize our schedules, guide us as we go. Help us to read in our Bibles everyday, even if it's five minutes at a time. We accept Your grace as we purpose to give Your Word a prominent position in our lives. Lord, give us a new desire to know Your Word. In the name of Jesus, Amen.

Love, Karen

Above All, Love

1 Corinthians 13

Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.

Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part. But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away.

When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.

And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

Faith is Our Defense

Once we choose the Truth and begin walking in it, we are at the same time rejecting the lies that Satan wants so much for us to accept. However, as we have learned, our uncontrolled emotions can complicate matters. It can be very difficult to sort out truth from untruth because of how we feel about a certain situtation. For these reasons, we must find the truth from the Word of God and act upon it. This is faith.

A wonderful aspect of faith according to Ephesians 6:16 is that it is a shield as we use it to "quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one." In order to refute Satan's lies, you and I must be fully persuaded of the truth of all God's promises. This kind of faith is wholly effective because it exposes the enemy's deception and reveals the Lord's perspective, which is true and right and just.

Let us always remember that our minds are the battle field. It is interesting that even when we choose to believe and act on the truth, the warfare continues the "noisy" uproar in our heads. The way to quiet the storm is by filling your thoughts with God's Word, even if you must read aloud. The enemy cannot stand against the Truth, so begin speaking it to those around you, on the phone, and to yourself.

"That we should no longer be children, tossed to and fro and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, in the cunning craftiness of deceitful plotting, but speaking the truth in love, may grow up in all things into Him who is the head -- Christ," Ephesians 4:14-15.

"So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the Word of God," Romans 10:17.

"But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him," Hebrews 11:6.

By faith we understand that we are dependent upon the Lord for the grace and strength to stand firm against the fiery darts of our enemy. We know that our faith is the greatest weapon against his lies and deceit. The Lord is our defense, and all we are to do is run to Him.

Love, Karen

Choosing the Pathway of Truth

Because we have spent time in our books and Bibles during the last several months, we have been reminded weekly that Satan is the author of all lies. He doesn't care what we believe as long as we do not believe the Truth. We have learned how to recognize his lies, and then how to immediately refute each one with the Truth of God's Word. If we find ourselves repeating a sin again and again, we must remember that we have power over it when we embrace the Truth and act upon it instead of the lie.

We will spin our wheels if we attempt to find the power to overcome sin anywhere except through Jesus Christ. He tells us, "I am the way the truth and the life..." Our own human reasoning cannot free us from the bondage of Satan's lies and our sin. We must not delay, but go quickly to the Word of God, which has the power to set us free. The Lord is faithful and will not hide His ways from us.

Isaiah 55:8-9, "'For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,' says the Lord. 'For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts.'"

Proverbs 14:12, "There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death."

Satan does not grow weary of lying, and he roams his domain "like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour" (1 Peter 5:8). His goal is to destroy Christians, so we must always stand ready and remain alert. The best way to prepare for battle is to know your Sword and how to to use it. Your Sword is your Bible.

Psalm 25:4-5 "Show me Your ways, O LORD; Teach me Your paths. Lead me in Your truth and teach me, for You are the God of my salvation; on You I wait all the day."

As we remain commited to always choosing the pathway of truth, may we also remain commited to always cry out to our Lord for His unending love and mercy as we take the next step. He will never leave or forsake us.

Love, Karen

Our Ultimate Goal

Romans 8:18, "For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us."

2 Corinthians, "For our light affliction which is but for a moment is working for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory, while we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things which are seen are temporary, but the things which are not seen are eternal."

Our troubles must not diminish our faith or disillusion us. There is a purpose for our suffering; however, as we experience the problems, we are tempted to focus on the pain rather than on our ultimate goal.

When we are faced with terrible illness, persecution, or pain of any kind, we have a steadfast hope in the Truth of God's Word. Namely, the realization that this life is not all there is -- there is life after death! Knowing that we will live forever in Heaven with God where there is no sin and suffering can help us live above the pain that we face in this life.

Meanwhile, we have a comforting promise as we live in this world:

Psalm 34:17-18, "The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit."

The Lord is near, and that knowledge brings us profound comfort.

Love, Karen

Responding to Persecution

While we realize that much of the suffering we endure comes from sickness, accidents, loss, and death, we would be wise to examine other forms that result from what the Bible calls persecution.

Matthew 5:11, "Blessed are you when they revile and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake."

It is not within our carnal nature to respond correctly when we are reviled, mocked, harrassed, or slandered. Our first response may very well be to shout back, to defend ourselves, or even to take revenge. That is why it is vital that we know the instructions of God's Word, and in the following instances, the Lord teaches us from the example of the life of Jesus.

Hebrews 5:8, "Though He was a Son, yet He learned obedience by the things which He suffered."

1 Peter 2:20b-21, "But when you do good and suffer, if you take it patiently, this is commendable before God. For to this you were called, because Christ also suffered for us, leaving us an example, that you should follow His steps."

The twelve disciples all experienced great persecution, and yet Peter exhorts us in his epistle how to respond with a blessing when persecution comes, and then refers to Psalm 34.

I Peter 3:8-12, "Finally, all of you be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous; not returning evil for evil or reviling or reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing. For 'He who would love life and see good days, let him refrain his tongue from evil, and his lips from speaking deceit. Let him turn away from evil and do good; let him seek peace and pursue it. For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous; and His ears are open to their prayers; but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil."

Neither was it in the carnal nature of Peter to respond to persecution in a Godly manner, and yet "he learned obedience by the things he suffered" and he developed the qualities of compassion, love, and courtesy along the way.

We are learning that it is indeed necessary for us to experience suffering. Our author tells us that suffering is a pathway to sanctification, a doorway into greater intimacy with God.

May we embrace this Truth, and may we obtain mercy and grace from our Heavenly Father as we meditate on its significance.

Love, Karen

Thoughts on Suffering

Acts 14:21-22, "And when they had preached the gospel to that city and made many disciples, they returned to Lystra, Iconium, and Antioch, strengthening the souls of the disciples, exhorting them to continue in the faith, and saying, 'We must through many tribulations enter the kingdom of God.'"

Paul and Barnabas returned to visit the believers in all the cities where they had recently been threatened and physically attacked. They understood the meaning of tribulation and received it as a necessary plight of their Christian experience. Their calling from God was to encourage the new believers throughout the region. On their first trip, they endured physical violence, and now they faced a second tour of the same area.

I Peter 4:12-14a, "Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you; but rejoice to the extent that you partake of Christ's sufferings, that when His glory is revealed, you may also be glad with exceeding joy. If you are reproached for the name of Christ, blessed are you, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests upon you."

The Lie that causes many Christians to fall away: "I Shouldn't Have to Suffer."

Many women dream of living a trouble-free, serene life void of contentions and conflict. What a wonderful picture! One day, for Christians, this dream will come true -- but not this side of heaven. Meanwhile, until that time, we live in a world that is not comparable to paradise, and we are surrounded by people who are not angel-like. Now what?

The answer is to draw near to your Heavenly Father, the One Who guides you, nurtures you, and loves you. He is with you in the suffering, teaching and instructing you how to endure, how to be patient, and how to cry out for deliverance. I Peter 5:10, "But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you."

Heavenly Father, thank You that I never suffer alone. You understand my weakness and stand ready to walk along side of me, comfort me, and rejoice with me as I rejoice in You! Thank You for counting me worthy. I love You. Amen.

Love, Karen

Victor vs. Victim

We are beginning the ninth chapter in our book, which is entitled, Lies Women Believe...About Circumstances. As we address the first Lie, I am sure that we will recognize it as one that each of us have entertained sometime during our lifetime. It is:

If my circumstances were different, I would be different.

Unfortunately, this way of thinking makes us out to be the victim in our circumstance. In fact, if you know a lady like this, it is very likely that this outlook permeates every other area of her life. Conversation will eventually center on her being the victim in all situations. We must recognize that, as with every Lie that invades her mind with deception, Satan is the author. His purpose is to cause separation in her relationship with the Lord. Without the Word of God, she might conclude that since God is in control of her circumstances, then He doesn't want the best for her because He doesn't want her to be happy, and....and so the lie goes!

As we endeavor to look for and find the Truth of the matter, we must remember to make it a habit to always consult the Word of God. What does the Lord have to say so that we can gain victory over wrong thinking? Read the Scritures with me:

Philippians 4:11-13, "I have learned to be satisfied with the things I have and with everything that happens. I know how to live when I am poor. And I know how to live when I have plenty. I have learned the secret of being happy at any time in everything that happens. I have learned to be happy when I have all that I need and when I do not have the things I need. I can do all things through Christ because he gives me strength."

James 1:2-5, "My brothers, you will have many kinds of troubles. But when these things happen, you should be very happy. You know that these things are testing your faith. And this will give you patience. Let your patience show itself perfectly in what you do. Then you will be perfect and complete. You will have everything you need. But if any of you needs wisdom, you should ask God for it. God is generous. He enjoys giving to all people, so God will give you wisdom."

Romans 8:28, "We know that in everything God works for the good of those who love him. They are the people God called, because that was his plan."

It is clear that God has a purpose for every circumstance He allows in our lives, and that He is mindful of our particular situation. Great joy and peace enters our lives when we walk with the knowledge of His loving participation in the details.

Psalm 139:1-6, "Lord, you have examined me. You know all about me. You know when I sit down and when I get up. You know my thoughts before I think them. You know where I go and where I lie down. You know well everything I do. Lord, even before I say a word, you already know what I am going to say. You are all around me -- in front and in back. You have put your hand on me. Your knowledge is amazing to me. It is more than I can understand."

Amen.

Love, Karen

The Word of God is Our Instruction Manual

Hebrews 4:14-16, "Seeing then that we have a great High Priest who has passed through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our confession. For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to hlep in time of need."

Philippians 4:4-8, "Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy -- meditate on these things."

Colossians 3:1-4, "If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth. For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. When Christ who is our life appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory."

Pray with me.
Lord Jesus, as we meditate on Your Word, please renew our minds and teach us how to deal with our emotions. Remind us to seek You first whenever we encounter struggles or failures, disappointments or grief. Teach us to take every thought captive and make them obedient to you. Train us to run to you and not to run from you, for you will always forgive, always love, and always meet our emotional needs. In Your Name, Amen.

Love, Karen

When Sadness Enters, Run to the Lord

"A study of depression and despair in the Scripture reveals that, in some cases, the pain we identify as emotional depression is simply one of the unavoidable consequences of living in a fallen world. In Romans 8, Paul indicates that the entire creation 'groans' under the weight of its fallen condition, longing for our final redemption from this sin-cursed world."

The above quote, found on page 204 of our text book, gives us one very adequate explanation of why we have all experienced some level of depression in our lives. As Eve reached for that fruit that day in the garden, she could have never forseen the far-reaching effects of her disobedience. Because of the first Sin, we live in a fallen world.

However, we are exhorted in James to keep ourselves unspotted from the world in which we live. So, we have a choice! We can actually choose to stay down in the dumps. Or, as we walk in the Spirit in obedience to the Lord, we can choose to exercise self control and willfully put aside the sadness that causes depression.

If believing a lie causes sadness, then take your sadness to God and pour out your heart to Him. Allow Him to show you truth from the Word, which will conquer the lie so that it will have no power in your life. "Because with lies you have made the heart of the righteous sad, whom I have not made sad." Ezekiel 13:22a

If living in a fallen world of sickness, hunger, and poverty causes a sense of hopelessness which could lead to depression, then again, turn your heart to God and cry out to Him. "'For the oppression of the poor, for the sighing of the needy, now I will arise,' says the Lord; I will set him in the safety for which he yearns.'" Psalm 12:5.

If mocking and persecution for righteousness has come your way, go to the Lord. Seek Him so that He will show you the great rewards that follows suffering with Him. "Blessed are you when they revile and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake. Rejoice and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you." Matthew 5:11-12

Anytime you feel the pain of living in an unfair world, you will find comfort and peace in our Heavenly Father when you turn your heart to Him. In Him is fullness joy. "In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world." John 16:33b

Lord, thank You for pouring out to us all that we need to take a firm grasp of our emotions. You have sent Your Word, Your Spirit, and Your grace to enable us to be the women that You have created us to be. Thank you for Your love, and thank You for knowing what we need even before we do. We love you. Amen.

Cry Out to God for Emotional Needs

When David was distraught or full of fear, he did not fail to go to God. As in Psalm 6, He would take his pain to the Lord and express his feelings. He knew that he could not depend upon his emotions to help him lead an army or to rule a country, so he cried out to God who is steadfast and unfailing. David poured out his heart to the Lord because he knew he would receive forgiveness for the sin that may have caused his anguish. He also found comfort from sorrow and grief, refuge from his enemies, and assurance of the Lord's protection. King David, the ruler of Israel, received God's grace to obey.

We would be wise to use David as an example for our own lives. We, too, can go to God and cry. The character of our Lord is unchanging; He will always hear us, always receive our prayers, and always understand.

Psalm 6

O Lord, do not rebuke me in Your anger,
Nor chasten me in Your hot displeasure.
Have mercy on me, O Lord, for I am weak;
O Lord, heal me, for my bones are troubled.
My soul also is greatly troubled;
But You, O Lord -- how long?
Return, O Lord, deliver me!
Oh, save me for Your mercies' sake!
For in death there is no remembrance of You;
In the grave who will give You thanks?
I am weary with my groaning;
All night I make my bed swim;
I drench my couch with my tears.
My eye wastes away because of grief;
It grows old because of all my enemies.
Depart from me, all you workers of iniquity;
For the Lord has heard the voice of my weeping.
The Lord has heard my supplication;
The Lord will receive my prayers.
Let all my enemies be ashamed and greatly troubled;
Let them turn back and be ashamed suddenly."

Surely, we are the same as David. We, too, will find strength and grace as we cry out to Him and express our emotions. Our Heavenly Father is faithful to give us all that we need. He is the unmoving Rock that we cling to when our emotions want to run wild. He gives us our reason back, and all we have to do is trust Him.

Lord, steady me that I might find peace in the midst of emotional swings. Allow me to be assured of your presence in my life, and help me walk in peace. Thank you for hearing my prayer and for understanding my frailty. Amen.

Love, Karen

Responding to Our Feelings

"You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You, because he trust in You," Isaiah 26:3.

"Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy -- meditate on these things. The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you," Philippians 4:8-9.

"If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth," Colossians 3:1-2.

One tactic that Satan uses is to persuade us to believe that we have no control regarding our emotions. While it is very true that emotions sometimes catch us by surprise, it is just as true that we can definitely have control over the way we respond to them. The Word of God indicates that we can exercise self-control over our feelings, and that when we do that God will pour out His peace upon us.

It is crucial for us to understand that the peace of God is not found in positive thinking or in absence of conflict, or in good feelings. It comes from knowing that God is in control. He is the Blessed Controller of all things.

When we begin to understand even a part of the character of God, we are moved to praise and worship Him. The psalmists wrote, composed, and sang to the Lord in response to their learning and experiencing God's magnificence. They expressed their emotions in the form of adoration and thanksgiving in melody. David and the other writers have taught us and left us a way through the Psalms to direct our emotions to the Lord.

Have a wonderful week!

Love, Karen

We Are Emotional Beings

As women, we carry with us certain qualities that give balance to all humanity. As Christian women, we understand that those qualities are God-given, and that there is a purpose for our lives that a man was not created to fulfill. In chapter 8 we come to an aspect of our make-up that is very often difficult to understand -- our emotions. However challenging we find this topic, God's Word holds the truthful answers. Let our Bible study begin!

Psalm 30:5, "For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for life; weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning."

Psalm 36:5, "Your mercy, O Lord, is in the heavens; Your faithfulness reaches to the clouds."

Matthew 26:38, "Then He said to them, 'My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here and watch with Me.'"

We learn from these Scriptures that the Lord feels emotions, and so it follows that we also have emotions because we were created in the image of God. Therefore, we are emotional beings, but we are not to be controlled by them. It is a relief for many of us to be reassured that emotions are not wrong in themselves. The Lord showed emotions such as anger, jealousy, sadness, grief, frustration, pity, and joy.

As we study this chapter in our books, we will learn about the role that faith plays in gaining control of our own emotions. We will see that it is not necessary for us to ride a roller coaster of feelings. The Lord is our rock, and it is vital for us to run to Him. He alone provides a steadfastness that we will always be unable to provide for ourselves.

We are going to dispel a few different lies that come at us regarding our emotions. One tells us that we can and should trust our own emotions. Another lie lures us into believing that we really have no control over how we feel. We can come against the enemy and render him powerless in our lives by going to the Word of God, seeking His Truth, and obeying Him:

"Hear my cry, O God; attend to my prayer. From the end of the earth I will cry to You, when my heart is overwhelmed; Lead me to the rock that is higher than I." Psalm 61:1-2.

May the Lord give us insight as we seek Him and His Word.

Love, Karen

Salvation Without a Doubt

2 Corinthians 5:17
If anyone belongs to Christ, then he is made new. The old things have gone; everything is made new!

Hebrews 3:14
We all share in Christ. This is true if we keep till the end the sure faith we had in the beginning.

1 John 2:3-5
If we obey what God has told us to do, then we are sure that we truly know God. If someone says, "I know God!" but does not obey God's commands, then he is a liar. The truth is not in him. But if someone obeys God's teaching, then God's love has truly arrived at its goal in him. This is how we know that we are following God.

1 John 3:14-15
We know that we have left death and have come into life. We know this because we love our brothers in Christ. Whoever does not love is still in death. Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer. And you know that no murderer has eternal life in him.

1 John 4:13, 15
We know that we live in God and God lives in us. We know this because God gave us his Spirit. If someone says, "I believe that Jesus is the Son of God," then God lives in him. And he lives in God.

It is unwise to assume that a son or daughter is saved, even though they repeated a prayer sometime in their past. If their behavior does not give indication of a true conversion, then it is important for you, their mother, to take note.

However, I think we will find great benefit if we examine our own condition first before considering our children's state. The Scriptures above explain the method we should use that will prove we are truly saved. The question, then, of how we can be sure can be answered in two parts:

1. Do what Christ says.

2. Live as Christ wants.

True Christian faith results in loving behavior; that is why John says that the way we act can give us assurance that we belong to Christ. It is so simple that it is complicated! The only way to gain salvation is to believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins; we prove we are saved to ourselves and others by our conduct. As Christians, we will obey the Lord by doing what He says, and we will live a life of love. It is a choice, not a feeling.

Now, let us focus back on our children. Do we see the evidences of a true conversion in each of them?

Lord, help me evaluate my children through the scope of Your Word. Lord, You know them, and You know exactly what each one needs in order to have a relationship with You. Help me guide them to You, and help me teach them by the example of my Christian faith. Oh, Lord, I fall so short of being the woman you want me to be. I ask for Your mercy. I ask that you pour out Your grace and love upon my children, that they would know You and love You, and that it would be evident in their lives. In the Name of Jesus, Amen.

Love, Karen

Avoiding Rebellion in Our Children

As mothers, one of our many responsibilities is that of our children's religious education. Recently, I found an interesting meaning of the word "religion," so interesting, in fact, that it has a special place in this post:

Religion: a bond between God and man.

God commanded in His Word that the stories of His mighty acts regarding man in history be passed on from the parents to children. The Lord wants parents never to forget His work in their lives, and He wants them to share their "religion" with their children and their grandchildren. The reason for this is the same today that it was when He first had it recorded in the Old Testament: to help each generation obey God and set their hope in Him. It is the responsibility of parents to keep their children from repeating the same mistakes of their forefathers.

As we teach our children about the bond we have with God, they will listen to our words. As we tell of our successes and failures, they will learn of God's mercy. As we lead our lives with the "mantle" of genuine love, they will desire to serve the God that loves us.

Psalm 78:1-7, "Give ear, O my people, to my law; Incline your ears to the words of my mouth.
I will open my mouth in a parable; I will utter dark sayings of old,
Which we have heard and known, and our fathers have told us.
We will not hide them from their children, telling to the generation to come the praises of the Lord,
And His strength and His wonderful works that He has done.
For He established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel,
Which He commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to their children;
That the generation to come might know them, the children who would be born,
That they may arise and declare them to their children,
That they may set their hope in God, and not forget the works of God,
But keep His commandments.

The subject of educating our offspring can loom as a giant before our eyes, and we are tempted to distress over the thought of it. However, the Lord shows us in this Psalm that His way is for parents to communicate with their children. Yes! Talking is communicating; communicating is sharing stories; sharing is teaching; teaching is education. Down goes the giant!

It is vital that we keep the lines of communication open with our children. As we encourage open and truthful conversations, along with a clear understanding of set boundaries, then their security is settled. They will not doubt our commitment and love. The truth is that our children do not have to go through a rebellious stage.

Deuteronomy 6:7, "You shall teach [them] diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up."

May the Lord bless you richly as you seek to have conversation with your children.

Love, Karen

Only Knowing What is Good

Genesis 3:5, "For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil."

Genesis 3:7, "Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew..."

Adam and Eve got what they wanted: an intimate knowledge of both good and evil. However, that was not what God intended for them, which is the reason He originally commanded them not to eat of the fruit of that fateful tree. When they disobeyed God, the experience of good and evil accompanied the knowledge. Thus, the serpent had persuaded Eve to take a bite based on a half-truth, and the results were disastrous.

God knows that the knowledge of evil is not necessary for a Christian's life. If we get to know God's Truth thoroughly, we will recognize evil at a glance. We do not have to study evil in order to understand it. Romans 16:19 teaches the point and the benefits of it very well, "But I want you to be wise in what is good, and simple concerning evil. And the God of peace will crush Satan under your feet shortly."

The "real world" that we live in is the domain of the Father of Lies. Our children are exposed to things in our culture that tempt them to be swayed from the Truth according to God's Word. Although the following "Lie" may seem logical at first glance, when we take it through the process that we have learned, we begin to see the folly in it.

The Lie: Children Need To Get Exposed To The 'Real World' So That They Can Learn To Function In It.

The Process:

Realize...Satan's original tempation appealed to Eve's desire of wanting to have the knowledge of good and evil.

Reflect...In what areas must your children tolerate some evil in order learn good?

Respond...Make sure your household library contains entertainment and education that is edifying to the spirit.

Our challenge, then, as Christian women is to not allow ourselves or our children to be molded by the culture of the world. I would caution you at this point not to look around and compare yourself with others. Instead, go to the Lord and ask Him what He would have you do. You will be blessed as you endeavor to walk in the Spirit and to keep yourself unspotted from the world. (See James 1:27.)

I think that this Bible Study has changed some ways I have thought in the past. I am praying for each of you and asking the Lord to show you how He has revealed truth and brought freedom to you, that you might thank Him and praise Him for progress.

Love, Karen

For Such is the Kingdom of Heaven

For the past several years, the media, public education, and certain secular organizations have slowly and methodically indoctrinated the world into a certain belief system that is absolutely opposite of what God's Word teaches. These have crept into the teachings of the Christian community, and we have accepted and finally embraced them as if the Lord Jesus Himself gave them to us. We must never forget that the father of lies is the prince of this world. His program propagates killing and destroying, and so he would certainly not encourage childbirth, as taught by Jesus in John 10:10, "The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly."

Jesus teaches more about children in Luke 18:15-17, "They also brought infants to Him that He might touch them; but when the disciples saw it, they rebuked them. But Jesus called them to Him and said, 'Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of God. Assuredly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it.'"

When we observe a little child displaying faith in the smallest way, we are attracted to it. We think it is cute and sweet when a little one announces that it will not rain today because he asked God for sunshine. Isn't it amazing to you that the Lord desires our faith to be like that of a child?

It does not matter what the subject is, the Lord wants His children to trust Him. This is not and will never be taught in the secular arena. If you have been exposed to the way of thinking that is contrary to God's way, then "be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God." (Romans 12:2)

Do not succomb to believe whatever your neighbor or co-worker believes. Believe in the Lord. His ways are true and right, and you will never be disappointed because He is faithful.

Love, Karen

Psalm 127

Unless the Lord builds the house,
they labor in vain who build it;
Unless the Lord guards the city,
the watchman stays awake in vain.
It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late,
To eat the bread of sorrows;
for so He gives His beloved sleep.
Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord,
the fruit of the womb is a reward.
Like arrows in the hand of a warrior,
so are the children of one's youth.
Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them;
they shall not be ashamed,
But shall speak with their enemies in the gate.

In this well-known Psalm, King Solomon tells of the senselessness of life without God. Whether building a house or building a family, he shows us that the Lord must be the foundation.

As a husband and a wife build a home together, they will consider their future children. When this couple seeks the Lord, they will soon realize God's design for family has everything to do with His view of children.

The world insists that children are a liability, and the more you have, the more hardship they represent. However, the Lord God, the Maker of all things, declares that children are indeed a blessing. This means that children in your family are rich assets, and God will benefit your life as you welcome them.

Lord, I want to view children the way You do. Search my heart, Lord, and if there is any thought contrary to Your view, change me. I want to love all children because I realize that every one is a precious gift from You. Thank you, Lord. Amen.

Love, Karen

What is the Truth of the Matter?

Many years ago, God created marriage between a man and a woman, and He intended for it to be an institution of sweet intimacy, meaningful fellowship, and lasting commitment. The serpent interrupted God's design by tempting Eve to disobey, and as we all know, she ate the fruit and induced Adam to join her. Thus was Satan's first assault, and it was on the marriage.

Today, Satan's main objective has not changed. His purpose is to destroy your marriage, and his first step is to plant the thought that divorce is a better option than staying in an unhappy marriage. If this thought is not recognized as a lie and rejected, then before long it is acted upon.

The purpose of this Bible study is for women to be made aware of the Lies we are told everyday. With our eyes wide open, we can be wise to the schemes of the devil, and we do not have to live our lives in ignorance. The Truth dwells in the Word of God, and when we receive it, the Holy Spirit will quicken it in our spirits that we might be set free from the lies we have believed concerning our wedded state.

Come with me and search the Scriptures:

Genesis 2:21-24
"And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall on Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh in its place, then the rib which the Lord God had taken from man He made into a woman, and He brought her to the man. And Adam said: 'This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; he shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.' Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."

Malachi 2:13-16
"And this is the second thing you do: you cover the alter of the Lord with tears, with weeping and crying; so He does not regard the offering anymore, nor receive it with goodwill from your hands. Yet you say, 'For what reason?' Because the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously; yet she is your companion and your wife by covenant. But did He not make them one, having a remnant of the Spirit? And why one? He seeks godly offspring. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously with the wife of his youth.

'For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce, for it covers one's garment with violence,' says the Lord of hosts. 'Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.'"

Mark 2:2-10
"The Pharisees came and asked Him, 'Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?' testing Him.

And He answered and said to them, 'What did Moses command you?'

They said, 'Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce, and to dismiss her.'

And Jesus answered and said to them, 'Because of the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. But from the beginning of the creation, God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."

We find reinforcement in the Word of God that marriage is God's idea. We also find that we must be committed to permanence. Is there a lingering idea in the back of your mind that tells you that divorce is an option? Maybe you are entertaining the notion that when your children grow up, then divorce is possible. These ideas are directly contrary to God's design for you.

The Truth of the Matter is:

Marriage is a lifelong covenant. There is no marriage that God cannot heal. There is no person God cannot change. God's grace is sufficient, even in the most difficult or extreme circumstances.

May you find true joy and peace with the knowledge of His Word.

Love, Karen

Practice Waiting on the Lord

Question of the Day

When a woman determines to wait on the Lord rather than taking the reins (in her marriage), what blessings could result in her life?

Whenever we open our Bibles with a sincere desire to search and find the Lord's heart in a matter, He allows us to see Him and to discover His truth. Deuteronomy 4:29 informs us clearly, "But from there you will seek the Lord your God, and you will find Him if you seek Him with all your heart and with all your soul."

Based on this promise, we are going to study the following Bible passages in order to find an answer to our question of the day:

Isaiah 40:31, "But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint."

Psalms 27:7-8, 14, "Hear, O Lord, when I cry with my voice! Have mercy also upon me, and answer me. When You said, 'Seek My face,' my heart said to You, 'Your face, Lord, I will seek.' Wait on the Lord; be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; Wait, I say, on the Lord! "

1 Peter 3:4, "...rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands."

Jeremiah 17:7, "Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, And whose hope is the Lord."

The Lord God, the One Who loves each of us unconditionally, allows different circumstances into our lives that affect us deeply. Many times, we cannot do one thing about them on our own, even though we tend to want to rush to find a remedy. We try on our own to relieve the situation, but we realize that by ourselves, and with our strength, there is absolutely nothing we can do. This is when we fall on our knees and cry out to the One Who owns the solution to our problem. However, it is surprising how many times the Lord answers our prayers with, "Wait on Me."

Many of us have discovered that we can apply this Truth to our marriage. Are you now or have you been faced with a trial? Perhaps you have cried out to God, and His response seems to indicate that you should do nothing but wait. As you have read, the Bible has much to say about the blessings we all receive by waiting on the Lord. You see, as you wait on God, you are in reality allowing the Lord to work in your husband's life without interference from you. It is true that this practice requires much patience on the part of the wife, but that is part of the blessing. The inner strength a wife needs, such as patience, diligence, and endurance produces faith, which is from the Lord.

If you have found yourself with the "reins" of your marriage in your hands, perhaps it is time to give them to the Lord. The Lord will give them back to your husband, which is where they belong.

And now it is time to wait...

...but you can do it! God has already given you the grace to obey Him. He will not let you down because He is faithful to fulfill His promises.


Love, Karen

Clearing Up A Misconception

The Father of Lies lures our minds away from Biblical thinking by framing foolish arguments as seen from his point of view. He persuades us to side with the world's thinking, and before long we become militant and angry. For example, somehow our enemy has convinced women of the "truth" of the following equation:

Submissive Wife = An undesirable position

You and I should know differently, because our Lord Jesus Christ demonstrated true submission by His life. As Christian women, we are privileged to have this example revealed to us from the Word of God. This is a good time to be reminded as we search out the Truth now. We are looking for Scriptural examples of "submission."

Matthew 20:28, "...just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give His life a ransom for many."

Jesus gave His disciples an entirely new thought. His mission was to serve others and to give His life away, and He taught others to do the same.

John 13:1-5, "Now before the Feast of the Passover, when Jesus knew that His hour had come that He should depart from this world to the Father, having loved His own who were in the world, He loved them to the end. And supper being ended, the devil having already put into the heart of Judas Iscariot, Simon's son, to betray Him, Jesus, knowing that the Father had given all things into His hands, and that He had come from God and was going to God, rose from supper and laid aside His garments, took a towel and girded Himself. After that, He poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples' feet, and to wipe them with the towel with which He was girded."

Christ was a wonderful teacher, and used various means to teach His disciples the truths of His Kingdom. One method He used to instruct was by example. He has actually shown us what it means to serve others by girding himself and using a towel to wash the feet of His disciples in the same way a household servant would in those days. He was fully aware of His position as the Son of the Father in Heaven, yet he made Himself lower, submitted Himself, for the sake of His disciples. This is love.

Philippians 2:5-7, "Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men."

Jesus did not give up His position of deity, but He set aside His high standing to make Himself of little regard. He did not relinquish anything, but neither did He demand recognition. As a result, He transformed our thinking by showing us a more excellent way.

And so, I believe there exists a much better equation that describes our view of submission in our marriage:

Submissive Wife = A Position Most Desired

Don't you agree?

Love, Karen

Desiring Only What God Wants for My Life

The author of Psalm 106 writes a song of national repentance as the people return from the Babylonian captivity. It is a summary of man's sinfulness from the beginning of the Exodus. In the wilderness, the children of Israel were so intent on getting the food and water they wanted that they became blind to what God wanted for them. They were more concerned about immediate physical gratification than long-lasting spiritual satisfaction. They did not want what was best for them, and they refused to trust in God's care and provision.

We will focus on the following three verses as they apply to our Bible study today:

Verse 13-15, "They soon forgot His works; they did not wait for His counsel, but lusted exceedingly in the wilderness, and tested God in the desert. And He gave them their request, but sent leanness into their soul."

We have all heard the warning, "Be careful what you pray for because you just might get it!" This caution may become more meaningful in the light of the above Scripture. We must ask ourselves if we have been "twisting God's arm" regarding any of the petitions we are bringing to Him. If we complain long enough, He may give us what we want, even if it is not good for us.

However, something interesting happens when we take our eyes off of our own desires. We are actually able to see the physical and spiritual needs of those that the Lord has positioned around us. This new eye-view causes us to see and to place others' needs before our own. Isaiah 58:11 tells us that when we do this, great blessing (not leanness) will come our way.

"The Lord will guide you continually, and satisfy your soul in drought, and strengthen your bones; You shall be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters do not fail."

Praise the Lord for His Truth. He guides us and gives us balance in His Word to keep us centered on Him. He alone knows what is good for us, yet when we humble ourselves with the pure motive of desiring His will for our lives, He reveals Himself to us in a marvelous way. He alone truly satisfies.

Love, Karen